At what point did we start believing that being a woman—being feminine—wasn’t powerful? Like really think about it. When did our softness, our sensuality, our presence…become something we felt like we had to work around instead of lean into? Because somewhere along the way, especially as Black women, we started treating our feminine “woo” like it was a disadvantage… instead of the very thing that makes us powerful. And instead of understanding it, we started measuring o